Published September 24, 2026 · FlirtationHub editorial team. Adults 18+ only.
Before the chat
- Choose a platform with an 18+ policy and a report button
- Use a nickname and separate email
- Do not link social media accounts
- Clear your background of mail, photos and windows
During the chat
- Keep personal details for later, if ever
- Assume you can be recorded
- Do not follow links sent by strangers
- Leave the moment something feels off
Sextortion: what to do
If someone threatens to share a recording unless you pay: do not pay, stop contact, save evidence (usernames, messages, times), report the account and contact the police. In the US you can also report to the FBI's IC3. Paying rarely ends the demands.
After the chat
- Check your card statements for unknown charges
- Revoke camera access for sites you no longer use
- Delete accounts you stop using
Frequently asked questions
Can someone record my video chat?
Yes. Screen recording works outside the platform and cannot be blocked. Only show what you would be comfortable with being shared.
Is it safe to give my Snapchat or Instagram?
Not in a first chat. It links your video to your real identity and friends.
What if the other person looks under 18?
End the chat immediately and report it to the platform. In the US you can also report to the NCMEC CyberTipline.